2- Politics, Pansexuality, and The One That Got Away (ft. Carsyn)

[00:00:00] Speaker A: So, hey, what's up? We're on the Hobby Mac show podcast. We're here with Carson. [00:00:05] Speaker B: What's up? [00:00:05] Speaker A: She's the garlic God. [00:00:07] Speaker B: I am. [00:00:07] Speaker A: Okay, so you love. You really love garlic. [00:00:10] Speaker B: I do love garlic, honestly. [00:00:11] Speaker A: And you're just telling me that we should eat a clove a day? [00:00:14] Speaker B: Yeah, I mean, some people, you know, we were talking about this clove a week to work up to it. Some people find garlic spicy. [00:00:20] Speaker A: Really? [00:00:21] Speaker B: But it's actually really good for your health, really good for your immune system. Big boost and keeps you healthy. [00:00:26] Speaker A: What exactly does it do? It just, like, builds you up. Like, I eat a lot of blueberries, which are good for. [00:00:33] Speaker B: But it's. It's like a combination of things. I'm not sure the exact science behind the garlic, but I just know that even doctors swear by it at this point that eating garlic is a boost to your immune system. [00:00:43] Speaker A: Wow. So, okay. [00:00:44] Speaker B: I don't know. It's like, it works. [00:00:47] Speaker A: Well, I need to do garlic now. I need to do garlic. [00:00:50] Speaker B: Had Covid. [00:00:50] Speaker A: So I have had Covid. Either. [00:00:52] Speaker B: So you did have it. [00:00:54] Speaker A: No, I did not. [00:00:55] Speaker B: Okay, you didn't have it. [00:00:56] Speaker A: Haven't had it. It's very. Haven't. Okay, that's cool. That's. So you're deep into the political scene. [00:01:07] Speaker B: I am, yeah. [00:01:08] Speaker A: Tell us more. [00:01:09] Speaker B: Well, I went to college and went to Florida State. Yeah. I got a degree in politics. [00:01:13] Speaker A: Go, Knowles. [00:01:13] Speaker B: Yeah. I mean, we suck. Go, Knowles. Like I said, we're a basketball school. We're just going to focus on that. [00:01:20] Speaker A: Don't come back. I have faith in them. [00:01:22] Speaker B: Yeah. Fastest fall from national championship I've seen. But it's okay. I was actually born and raised an Alabama fan, so I'm not hurting that way. [00:01:29] Speaker A: Okay, but you were raised in Georgia. But your father's, like, from. He went the bam. [00:01:34] Speaker B: My dad was born in Tuscaloosa. [00:01:36] Speaker A: Oh, okay. [00:01:36] Speaker B: So it's like in. In the blood, in the heart, in the blood. The crimson tide runs through the blood. [00:01:41] Speaker A: How many times growing up did you hear Rotide? [00:01:44] Speaker B: All the time. And then my mom was, like, a Gators fan, so I was, like, split between the two, and I would be like, roll Gators. [00:01:52] Speaker A: What's their chant? What do the Gators chant? Do they have a chant? [00:01:56] Speaker B: I have no idea. I should have. I mean, I went to Knowles. [00:01:59] Speaker A: So they have the chomp. [00:02:01] Speaker B: Well, yeah, they do the chomp. [00:02:02] Speaker A: They've got that. [00:02:03] Speaker B: Well, we have the seminal chomp. [00:02:04] Speaker A: You got the ch. They get the chop. [00:02:06] Speaker B: Yeah. And. But screw the Gators. [00:02:09] Speaker A: Oh, wow. Screw the Gator. Yeah. Because you. [00:02:12] Speaker B: Yeah, go Noles. I mean, they'll stomp us in football, but still. Screw the Gators. [00:02:15] Speaker A: Like, you gotta screw them. Not like that. Or like that. [00:02:20] Speaker B: Tallahassee does it better anyways. [00:02:22] Speaker A: Okay. Tallahassee does it better. Okay. [00:02:24] Speaker B: Crazy place. [00:02:24] Speaker A: But really, why is it crazy? I don't know anything about that. [00:02:27] Speaker B: Really? [00:02:27] Speaker A: No. [00:02:28] Speaker B: They call it talonasty for a reason. [00:02:30] Speaker A: Really? Do they call it telenasty? [00:02:32] Speaker B: Yes, it's a crazy place. Like the. I mean, I know people at LSU will, like, fight me on this, but I say it's the biggest party school in the nation. Still. [00:02:42] Speaker A: Really? [00:02:43] Speaker B: Sorry. [00:02:44] Speaker A: No. How far are all those? Because those are like, some really cool schools. Like, party at each one and then you're just like, partying and you're like. But you. You halfway hate them a little bit. Is that what it is? [00:02:55] Speaker B: Yeah. I mean, like, there's nothing in Gainesville, which is where Florida is. Like the Gators. There's nothing there. I mean, I'm sure some people will be mad about that, but, like, they come to Tallahassee to party. Their fraternities and sororities throw events in Tallahassee, so that's how, you know. [00:03:09] Speaker A: Okay. [00:03:10] Speaker B: People find a way in Tallahassee to go out every single day of the week. [00:03:13] Speaker A: Okay. [00:03:14] Speaker B: I've never seen that anywhere else, but even Sundays, people slapped out drunk. [00:03:17] Speaker A: Even. Even, like, Mondays. [00:03:19] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. There's a mandatory makeout Mondays at Clydes. [00:03:22] Speaker A: Did you participate in this? [00:03:23] Speaker B: No, no. Personally, like Clydes and Dirt and like that. Those were like the two bars for Mondays, and that was my least favor. They were like shoeboxes. [00:03:35] Speaker A: Okay. [00:03:35] Speaker B: Hated those Tuesdays. [00:03:37] Speaker A: Shoeboxes. I've never heard that phrase, shoeboxes. [00:03:39] Speaker B: I mean, you just go there. [00:03:40] Speaker A: This place is a shoebox. It smells like socks in here. [00:03:44] Speaker B: It's just. There's no space whatsoever. And then, like, Tuesdays was recess, which was like this rooftop. Rooftop club. [00:03:50] Speaker A: That sounds nice. [00:03:51] Speaker B: With a pool. [00:03:52] Speaker A: Oh, wow. [00:03:53] Speaker B: So called cesspool. [00:03:55] Speaker A: Oh. Oh, yeah. Well, then, so classy and nice to like, oh, this is cesspool. [00:04:02] Speaker B: End of the night, someone's in the pool. Multiple people in the pool. Pool. [00:04:05] Speaker A: So multiple. Oh, okay. But it's like a. Is it a cool pool? Is it a nice. [00:04:10] Speaker B: I mean, just. I don't trust people in successful. [00:04:13] Speaker A: Why don't you trust people in Tallahassee? [00:04:15] Speaker B: There was a. A different strain of STDS that came out from Tallahassee in particular. Yeah. [00:04:21] Speaker A: What? From what? [00:04:22] Speaker B: Like, I'm pretty sure it was chlamydia. Like, I just couldn't. I. [00:04:26] Speaker A: It's like a new form of chlamydia that they got from the. [00:04:28] Speaker B: It was like Tallahassee specific. [00:04:30] Speaker A: Oh, wow, that's. [00:04:31] Speaker B: Yeah. But every day of the week, somewhere else to go, different deals. Or like Saturday, there's this place called the Strip. And there's like, okay, five. Is it one building? Five different bar club things. You pay one cover charge, like $10, and people stripped. No, but it was $10. All you can drink. [00:04:50] Speaker A: Oh, what? [00:04:51] Speaker B: At all? Five. [00:04:51] Speaker A: Okay, now that's crazy. [00:04:53] Speaker B: Yeah, so is that. [00:04:55] Speaker A: That's crazy. Like, dangerous economically. That doesn't make sense. [00:04:59] Speaker B: I mean, they do it every Saturday. It's the biggest night of the week. And. [00:05:03] Speaker A: And every. Everybody just goes to Strip. [00:05:05] Speaker B: And like I said, it's like. Let me see. Different in the main building. And then they attach the club called 10 with it, and it's like the bigger club. So technically you have like six different bars to go to. All these different vibes. There's a country, one rap, one EDM pool house. And then, like, there's the big club, and there's like an outdoor bar, too. And so literally hundreds and hundreds, probably like thousands of kids all in one area. So. [00:05:29] Speaker A: Thousands of kids. Okay, so then they're at least making, you know, couple. 10,000. Yeah, they're making 20, 30,000 bucks. [00:05:40] Speaker B: Like, I mean, they're also serving bottom shelf liquor. [00:05:42] Speaker A: Bottom shelf liquor. They're probably, like, really thin pores. And the line's probably long, so you don't even want to wait. [00:05:49] Speaker B: Well, I mean, again, there's six different ones, and you can double fist, so you can get two drinks at once. [00:05:55] Speaker A: That's pretty good. [00:05:55] Speaker B: Yeah. Like I said, I was the mom in the group, always dragging people out because everyone else blacked out. [00:06:01] Speaker A: And you don't drink. You've always not drink, or how long have you not drunk? [00:06:03] Speaker B: Well, like, I tried drinking college. Like, I tried with it, but just like, by the time, you know, I'm going shot for shot, drink for drink with all my friends, and they're all blacked out at that point, and I'm not feeling anything. So I'm like, all right, well, I gotta be the adult. [00:06:19] Speaker A: That's smart. [00:06:20] Speaker B: I haven't drank since. I haven't really drank since I was 21. Okay, 23 now. [00:06:26] Speaker A: Okay, so two years. [00:06:27] Speaker B: Yeah, been about. [00:06:28] Speaker A: That's exactly the same with me. [00:06:30] Speaker B: Really? Why do you. Why don't you drink? [00:06:31] Speaker A: Well, so like, almost two years ago, I was doing. I did A charity boxing event. And I took it really seriously. And I had like two a day practice. I didn't drink. I ate like a crazy regimen, so. And then I just never started again. I was just like, whatever. I mean, I feel much better. [00:06:47] Speaker B: I mean. Yeah, I prefer it. Honestly. [00:06:49] Speaker A: I gotta stay young. [00:06:51] Speaker B: I mean, technically, I think tequila is supposed to be good for you. [00:06:54] Speaker A: Oh, tequila? [00:06:55] Speaker B: Yeah, I think tequila is like good for you like once a week or something, so. [00:06:58] Speaker A: You're right. So tequila the garlic. [00:07:01] Speaker B: Tequila was my drink of choice. [00:07:03] Speaker A: Oh, really? [00:07:04] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:07:04] Speaker A: Okay. [00:07:04] Speaker B: Tequila and whiskey. [00:07:06] Speaker A: Yeah, Tequila and whiskey. [00:07:08] Speaker B: Not at the same time. That sounds like a death wish. [00:07:12] Speaker A: Tequila, Whiskey. [00:07:13] Speaker B: But what are they? So. But yeah, Florida State. Really crazy place. But I managed to get a degree. [00:07:19] Speaker A: Yeah. What should get a degree in? [00:07:21] Speaker B: Political science. [00:07:22] Speaker A: Oh, that's dope. Yeah, that's really relevant. [00:07:24] Speaker B: Yeah, I mean, it's. I kind of knew ever since I was a kid that it's what I wanted to do. When I was 11, I was actually bullied really badly because I found out my family was the only family that supported Obama. And so I was bullied relentlessly by ignorant kids who like, didn't know what they were talking about. And they told me to kill myself. To kill yourself? Yeah. [00:07:46] Speaker A: So good. [00:07:47] Speaker B: Yeah, they weren't nice. So I discovered the best way to take down bullies was to educate myself and then debunk their ignorant rhetoric. [00:07:54] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. [00:07:55] Speaker B: They didn't know how to respond. [00:07:57] Speaker A: What did they say? [00:07:58] Speaker B: They would just shut up really fast when I would be like, oh, here's this statistic. Here's this statistic. And they'd be like, what? Oh, wow, they shrink real fast. So it was like the best, like, method of protection. So I just kind of like knew from then on I had a passion for it. I love to educate myself. And then in college I tried to go the communications but like video editing route because I like am a videographer and stuff like that too. [00:08:21] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:08:22] Speaker B: But it was a really exclusive program. And when that didn't work out, I was like, all right, back to politics. Yeah. [00:08:26] Speaker A: No, that's cool. [00:08:27] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:08:28] Speaker A: So since you did the video editing and you're in the politics, do you do any reporting? Did you try to go that route? [00:08:33] Speaker B: I did. So I mean, I do that kind of on my tick tock. I mean, it's not like edited that as the way that I normally do it, but that's kind of what I've gotten into. I did was a news anchor for my radio station in college, so. [00:08:46] Speaker A: Oh, that's Cool. [00:08:47] Speaker B: That was my news reporting. [00:08:49] Speaker A: But that was your thing. [00:08:50] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:08:51] Speaker A: And you kicked it up and made it interesting. [00:08:53] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:08:54] Speaker A: Okay, so we got a couple people jumping in. We got Turbo says hello, you are live. I can't believe. Oh, believe it. [00:09:02] Speaker B: I mean, it's real. [00:09:03] Speaker A: It's real. We're here with Carson, by the way. She's at Garlic Goddess underscore. Right? [00:09:10] Speaker B: Garlic God. [00:09:11] Speaker A: Garlic God. Just Garlic God. [00:09:13] Speaker B: Just garlic God underscore on Instagram. Just garlic God on TikTok. [00:09:16] Speaker A: God. You know, it's, you know, we don't just, we don't specify what sex this God is. It's just God. [00:09:23] Speaker B: Yeah, I mean, God God is non binary in my opinion. [00:09:25] Speaker A: Non binary. She loves us all. [00:09:27] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:09:28] Speaker A: He, she, they, she, they. [00:09:30] Speaker B: Oh, they, them. [00:09:31] Speaker A: Oh, they, them, her. [00:09:33] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:09:34] Speaker A: You know, somebody said, oops, Islam says, I don't even know what that's a. Is that a gray smiley face? Shah. Okay, thanks guys. Thanks for tuning in. All right, so let's dive in. Let's play a little game. This is true for drink. We're not drinking. So it's just like truth, you know, whatever this is on the rock. So these are like, these are like, I guess, chill ish questions. But sometimes they get kind of real. [00:10:07] Speaker B: Okay. [00:10:08] Speaker A: Sometimes they get kind of real. I'm like, oh my God. That was a real question. [00:10:11] Speaker B: That was some impressive shuffling. [00:10:13] Speaker A: Oh, thank you. No, what about this one? I'm trying some, trying something new. Okay, what about this? I used to. So I went on. So I went on a. What did I do? I was in the Junior Olympics. [00:10:28] Speaker B: Okay. [00:10:29] Speaker A: And we dropped. I think we drove. I remember me and my dad were driving pretty far. So the whole time I'm trying to learn how to do like a one handed cut. [00:10:40] Speaker B: Oh my God. [00:10:40] Speaker A: That's what I learned on that trip. [00:10:42] Speaker B: Yeah. I can't shuffle at all. [00:10:44] Speaker A: You can't shuffle? [00:10:45] Speaker B: I mean like in the. I do like tarot and I can't. I can't shuffle my tarot. [00:10:49] Speaker A: Yeah, you should have brought your tarot cards. [00:10:51] Speaker B: I should have brought my tarot cards. I typically carry one in my bag, but I didn't bring it this time. But I can't shuffle them. [00:10:57] Speaker A: How'd you get into tarot? [00:10:59] Speaker B: I mean, so for me, like, like when it comes to religion, like I'm not into the religious type, but I'm like a spiritual type. Universe type thing. [00:11:07] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:11:07] Speaker B: And crystals, all that stuff. [00:11:09] Speaker A: Crystals. [00:11:10] Speaker B: So I kind of use tarot as a way of like messages from the universe and whatever. That's typically What I do, it's kind of part of my, like, daily routine. [00:11:18] Speaker A: Oh, really? [00:11:19] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:11:19] Speaker A: Do you do for yourself? [00:11:20] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:11:21] Speaker A: Oh, that's cool. [00:11:21] Speaker B: I mean, I do it for other people if they ask. [00:11:23] Speaker A: Oh, really? [00:11:23] Speaker B: Yeah. I know some people make a business out of it. Not really my thing. [00:11:26] Speaker A: You don't want to make a business out of it? [00:11:28] Speaker B: No, it's just for fun. [00:11:29] Speaker A: Like, fun and connection and nobody can touch your cards. Right. [00:11:32] Speaker B: I have one deck that I don't let anyone touch. I have my special deck. I have, like, a basic universal weight one that, like, you know, anyone can use those just because they're, like, my community cards. [00:11:43] Speaker A: Right. [00:11:43] Speaker B: My special deck. No one can touch that. [00:11:45] Speaker A: Yes. Because it taints it. Right. [00:11:48] Speaker B: I mean, I just. I. I'm careful about what energy I. [00:11:50] Speaker A: Allow into things, so that's cool. So what's, like, the biggest shock that you read somebody's card? What was like, something was. You ever have a reading where you're like. [00:12:09] Speaker B: Yeah, I did one for my dad recently, and he wasn't there with me. I was just like, oh, let me just channel this and see. And it was like a perfect past. I was doing a past, present, future thing, and I was reading through him, and I was like, oh, no. No way. Because the past, present was so. And, like, the future, you know, obviously hoping that the future one comes, because it was a really good pull for that. But just in regards to things that he's going through, I was like, oh, okay. They came through strong on this one. I told him about it the next day, and he was like, that's freaky. Yeah, it's a fun time. [00:12:44] Speaker A: How do the crystals work? [00:12:46] Speaker B: Yeah. So basically with crystals, it's like, everything has energy, right? We have energy. We're electrical beings. So do crystals. Right. And so they vibrate at different frequencies. Different crystals are for different things. I kind of have them around my house in different areas for different things. I really love amethyst. [00:13:05] Speaker A: Okay. [00:13:06] Speaker B: It's like. But it's like, at a point where you can. When you're, like, tapped in, you can tangibly feel the energy and, like, what they're vibrating at. Like, for me, amethyst vibrates at, like, a low frequency, and I can feel that it's, like, cooler versus something like a clear quartz kind of vibrates at higher frequency. [00:13:22] Speaker A: That's cool. You're very educated about this. [00:13:24] Speaker B: I try to make myself educated on, like, everything that I plan to speak on. [00:13:28] Speaker A: Oh, that's good. Yeah. It's like, I know a lot about a little. And A little bit. A lot, you know? [00:13:33] Speaker B: Yeah, it's like, I don't want to speak on it if I don't have the education for it. Like, I don't want to, like, talk out my ass, basically. [00:13:40] Speaker A: Okay, okay. So the thing that you're most educated. Before we get to this, tell us more about the political stuff. I want to know. [00:13:47] Speaker B: Yes, convince us. I mean, so the biggest thing I'd say is, like, registering to vote is like one of the biggest things. And I know everyone hears that, but I think the thing that people fail to realize when it comes to politics is that because so many people, they look at the presidential race and they're just like, my vote doesn't mean anything. My vote doesn't count. And like, granted, I understand that with the electoral college, it really makes it feel like it doesn't count, but your vote matters, especially when you look, get down into the state and local politics. That's where your vote has a direct impact. And people don't down ballot vote, which means, you know, you vote for the president, you vote for the senators, you vote for the representatives, then you need to vote for your state legislatures, you need to vote for your local council people. Like, all of those things you need to take into account because that's where you have a direct hand and direct influence in what's happening in your community. And I think we do a really poor job in this country educating people on how important their vote actually is, because we focus so much of our time on the federal level with president and Congress. But it's the state and local that really, really needs your vote, and people don't turn out to vote for that. So that's kind of one of the things I'm most passionate about with it. [00:14:51] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's good. I mean, people came out to vote this year. [00:14:55] Speaker B: Yeah, people definitely came out to vote. I mean, the special election and. But granted, also, like I said, we were getting harassed from people all over the country. [00:15:02] Speaker A: Yeah, we were. [00:15:03] Speaker B: I was getting like eight text messages a day. [00:15:06] Speaker A: A day? [00:15:07] Speaker B: Yeah. And I like, oh, my God. [00:15:08] Speaker A: By who? Like, just like, people working. [00:15:11] Speaker B: Yeah, just like people doing the, like text banking and stuff like that. And just. And surveys, too. And then all the postcards I had, like. [00:15:19] Speaker A: Oh, you had a bunch of. Yeah, handwritten. [00:15:21] Speaker B: Yeah, like handwritten postcards. Like 50 of them. Just like, I really appreciate your help, but, like, I can't find anything else in my mailbox. [00:15:29] Speaker A: Right. So it's. It was a little tense, but I guess they reached out, they got us. [00:15:33] Speaker B: To it was effective. Like I said, some of the counties, especially in, like, southern rural Georgia, and this was definitely entirely. I mean, you can look at Stacy Abrams and absolutely thank her for this. But especially for the local black organizers in these southern rural. I mean, we're in the south, but the like. Like further south rural areas, some of them only turned out 90% for the presidential, but had a 99% turnout for the state. The special election with OSSIP and Warnock. And that is definitely, like, thanks to local organizers and black activists. So. And Stacey Abrams has a hand in that too. But I don't think we give our local organizers enough credit for what they did because they. They did the thing. [00:16:09] Speaker A: They went all out. They went. [00:16:11] Speaker B: Yeah, they did the whole thing. Like, it's thanks to them that we did that. And Fair Fight Stacey Abrams organization is a huge part of that because it helped us with the voter suppression that we face here every two years, every election. But. [00:16:24] Speaker A: Right. So, no, it's crazy because I actually stopped going to the polls because it was just, like, ridiculous. Like, it was like, click. Like, I felt like it was voter suppression because it was like, okay, how do these not work? And it's like, ridiculous, you know, but, like, so, you know, I just send in my ballot and luckily, George is cool about that, you know. [00:16:45] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:16:45] Speaker A: Right. The reason absentee ballots is amazing here. [00:16:48] Speaker B: Yeah. And, like, mail in ballots, absentee ballots, they are totally safe. And they've. In so many states, they've been doing that for years, and they've been having. They send people absentee ballots automatically when time to vote comes around. So, I mean, I think in the future we'll probably see us moving more towards that once we restore trust in the system. A lot of people don't trust the system right now, so. [00:17:08] Speaker A: Yeah, it'll take time, but it'll take time. You know, trust is fluid. Whatever. I'm just gonna vote and do it. I have the same amount of trust. If I go in person, send a ballot is equal. [00:17:21] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:17:21] Speaker A: Like, it's like 5% trust. So it's fine either way. It's the same. [00:17:29] Speaker B: My vote. My vote probably counts. [00:17:32] Speaker A: But I did my part. [00:17:33] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:17:33] Speaker A: I at least tried. [00:17:34] Speaker B: I feel good about it. I got a sticker. [00:17:36] Speaker A: I got a sticker. [00:17:37] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:17:37] Speaker A: Let's move on. [00:17:39] Speaker B: Yeah. But I'm glad that we have, you know, like, a year until we start getting harassed again. [00:17:45] Speaker A: Right. Oh, my God. [00:17:46] Speaker B: Then we'll have Stacey Abrams going for governor. [00:17:48] Speaker A: Is she gonna go for governor? [00:17:49] Speaker B: Yeah, pretty sure. I don't think she's like, absolutely an out. Announced it, but I'm pretty positive she'll be going for governor. [00:17:53] Speaker A: I guess she'll probably get it. [00:17:54] Speaker B: I don't think Kemp will be. I don't. I don't think Kemp will 1 run again, but 2 if he does, I don't think he'll survive. [00:18:01] Speaker A: Really? [00:18:01] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:18:02] Speaker A: It's crazy. [00:18:02] Speaker B: Yeah. He got annihilated this past election season. [00:18:06] Speaker A: That's pretty intense. [00:18:07] Speaker B: Yeah. Georgia politics are, you know, shaping the country right now. [00:18:12] Speaker A: Yeah. We're kind of, you know, switched. [00:18:14] Speaker B: Yeah. I mean, we flip blue. I mean. But here's the thing. When you look at gerrymandering, when you look at voter suppression, we would have flipped blue a long time ago. So that's just kind of the. As part of the Fair Fight action, and that's just the direction we got to go now. And the gerrymandering. I mean, when you look at the way the Fulton county looks, it's just like, it gets so skinny in Atlanta and then spaces out. So it's just. Once we address those issues, we'll have less voter suppression issues, I believe. But it's all a big machine. [00:18:46] Speaker A: It is. No matter what, it's all. It's a machine. It's. What is the most controversial thing you believe politically? [00:18:56] Speaker B: Oh, well, I think that also depends on who you ask, because, like, yeah, conservatives will say, everything I believe is controversial. [00:19:06] Speaker A: Okay. [00:19:07] Speaker B: I just. Oh, that's a really hard one. I mean, like, there's, like. This is. This is just like a softball, but, like, I'm obviously pro choice, which is controversial to a lot of people. I would like to decriminalize sex workers or just sex work in general. I think it would provide a lot of protection for everyone in the industry. Legalization could hurt them. [00:19:30] Speaker A: What's the most thing in sex work being illegal that you think bothers you? What aspect of it? Because there's a big spectrum of sex work, obviously. [00:19:44] Speaker B: I think one of the biggest issues. We see this a lot with homeless youth. Youth, Right. And, like, homeless youth will get, like, trafficked or, like, wrapped up in sex work. And because it's all illegal anyways, it's just a bigger threat to them. Because no matter what, like, everyone who's part of it is breaking the law. So it's just like, there's. It's. It. There's a blurred line there and not. No protection for them. I think decriminalizing it could give us better protections for youth so that, you know, it's. And from what I've Heard from sex workers themselves. They don't want legalization because legalization could still lead to especially like minority workers facing harsher judgment or punishments under the law. And decriminalization would be the better way to go with it. I think protecting the youth right now is probably one of the biggest aspects with it because the human trafficking is one of the like, worst issues, not just facing our country, but the world. [00:20:35] Speaker A: Oh yeah, definitely, 100%. And Atlanta is like a crazy major hub. It's ridiculous because it's something like most people don't really think about often, but it's like such a huge thing. It's like once, you know, it's like, what the heck. [00:20:50] Speaker B: Yeah. When I was like 15, I believe they said Atlanta was like the second largest human trafficking hub in the world. [00:20:57] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:20:57] Speaker B: And that's like a really shocking thing to hear as a 15 year old. I was going to a private school at the time and they like terrorized us with this statistic which, like, I understand it, but like, it's just like it's some. And now, I mean, there's a lot, there has been a lot done to make people aware of what it looks like, what are the warning signs and like how to keep your eyes out for it. But still, this is such a massive problem. And I think one of the biggest problems is so many people in power are a part of it. Just like CEOs and people in the top. Not just 1%, but more than that. And I'm not trying to get into a Q and on thing, but I think so many powerful people, people with money are a part of it or play an indirect part of it. That is part of the reason that's perpetuating. Perpetuating it. [00:21:42] Speaker A: What do you, what, what do you think? So they're, they're. The people at the top are part of it. [00:21:47] Speaker B: I mean, I just think people with money, like, it's. [00:21:50] Speaker A: How, how do you think they're a part of it, the human trafficking? I. I don't know. [00:21:54] Speaker B: I mean, like, for example, when you look at sites like, like pornhub, like pornhub is like, there are so many videos on there that are of children being trafficked. [00:22:04] Speaker A: No way. [00:22:04] Speaker B: Yeah. They've been caught with this multiple times of like children being trafficked, children being assaulted. It' website, because of the screening process isn't as, you know, rigorous as it should be. So whether they know directly or not, they have a role in this, in our human trafficking epidemic. Right. [00:22:20] Speaker A: Wow. [00:22:21] Speaker B: So like, that's one of the examples of like, you know, pornhub is a wealthy corporation, and, like, they could use their money to, like, fight human trafficking to have a better screening. They definitely have the money to make a better screening process. But still. These videos of children being assaulted are on their website. [00:22:38] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:22:39] Speaker B: Yeah. It's horrible. [00:22:40] Speaker A: Yeah, that's. That is pretty horrible. [00:22:42] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:22:43] Speaker A: Okay, so what else is. What else are you gonna reform when you get your. Your position of power? [00:22:50] Speaker B: I mean, one of the things I'm most passionate about is the education system. I personally want to just scrap the whole thing and start over. Cool. [00:22:58] Speaker A: I don't like how they do it in Alaska. Like, they don't have grades, like, in different parts of Alaska. It's just, like, improve or, like, excellent or needs a lot of improvement, you know, like, because there's this town in Alaska that they don't even have grades. It's just like, you're like, a. You're sufficient in math. [00:23:19] Speaker B: Right? Like, kind of like how we had it in elementary school. But I would like to reform us to look more like Finland because, like, Finland is on, apart from being one of the happiest countries in the world, has one of the best education systems in the world, and the US does not rank in the top of the education system. [00:23:35] Speaker A: Where's the U.S. where are they at? [00:23:36] Speaker B: I believe the last scores I saw, the PISA test was actually, like, we were 18th out of 36. [00:23:43] Speaker A: 18Th out of 36. [00:23:44] Speaker B: 18-8-36. Industrialized country is in, like. I believe that might have been reading. And I think we were lower in regards to, like, math and science. I might have that switched. But, yeah, so. And part of that is because Reagan reformed our education system to be that. More of, like, Japan and other Asian countries, which put so much focus on, like, hitting these standards, hitting curriculum standards instead of focusing on students. Well, being that we. We literally left students behind and that's. I mean, we see Common Core now doing the same thing. Just people are. Teachers are miserable trying to teach to these standards instead of teaching so children can learn. Children are not learning. They're just learning to pass a test and then throwing it all out. I would like to get us back to children actually learning for the sake of learning. And, like, in Finland, they don't give grades until high school. There's, like, children in elementary school spend only, I think, four or five hours in the classroom, and then, like, the rest. They get, like, the rest of the day, like, outside. There's, like, a lot of breaks in between to play outside and. Yeah. And high school as well. Like, they don't have any standardized tests or anything until high school, too, so. And their students are happy, and they always test in the top of the. The international test, so. Yeah, that's cool. Also, I think teaching practical skills like taxes and what, mortgages. [00:25:02] Speaker A: Oh, my God, we need that. Like taxes and, like, business. [00:25:07] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:25:07] Speaker A: And like, you know, credit score. Yeah. [00:25:10] Speaker B: Like, how to apply to get a credit card. Do you need a credit card? How to get a loan, how to do mortgages. I mean, all of these things that are, like, skills that we are expected to know, like, the second we become adults, but we were never taught. Like, how are we supposed to know these? [00:25:24] Speaker A: The only reason I knew about it is because I proactively did it. I was like, I don't want to be poor. Like, what are the steps that I need to do? [00:25:33] Speaker B: Right. Like, you sought it out. [00:25:34] Speaker A: Right. [00:25:34] Speaker B: It's like, not everyone has the capabilities to do that, and we should just make it a class study. I mean, similarly, I think media literacy should be a thing to teach people how to spot reliable sources, how to fact check, how to read for bias. Because so many people nowadays are like, oh, well, that source is bias. Well, look at the reliability. Are their facts correct? If their facts are correct, then you can read for bias. You can be like, oh, well, they could have done without this sentence. This sentence, like, threw off. Threw it to the bias. But you can pick out the facts, and people need to learn how to do that. [00:26:04] Speaker A: Right. And, like, you know, don't be swayed by simple things, like the title, like how they rearrange the. [00:26:12] Speaker B: Yeah. Like, the headlines are, like, always to, like, rile people up. But, like, you need to actually read it. And also just like, I mean, I read a lot of. I still read a lot of academic studies, which are, like, massive research papers that, like, most people don't read. They're really hard to understand. But, like, reading that and, like, reading for bias in that way helped me with my media literacy and how I read news articles every day. And I just think giving students a basis of that would really help us from the point that we're at now. With the crazy. [00:26:40] Speaker A: With the crazy. [00:26:41] Speaker B: Yes. So much crazy. [00:26:42] Speaker A: What'd you think about the stuff of the Capitol? All that stuff? [00:26:45] Speaker B: I was. [00:26:45] Speaker A: What did you think about that? [00:26:47] Speaker B: I was live reporting that day. Like, I was. I was on TikTok, you know, reporting stuff live. Live streaming, answering people's questions as it was happening. I was just kind of having a live reaction to it. It was, like, traumatic in a way. I mean, not as traumatic as, like, I don't want to compare it to 9 11, but, like, I remember 9 11, and it wasn't like, that kind of trauma, but it was still just a craziness. Yeah. Just, like, horrifying to see it happening. Just like, it seemed like we had entered an alternate reality that day. It was. I just was like, what is going on? Like, I saw people climbing up the wall, like, to get up on. And I was like, what? Aren't people gonna die that way? I'm pretty sure someone did actually fall off and die. [00:27:27] Speaker A: Like, I saw someone fall off. Yeah. I think, what, four people died from just random things like that. [00:27:32] Speaker B: And then another person, a woman from Kennesaw, actually passed away. She was, like, trampled when people were, like, running to attack the cops that got killed. So. [00:27:42] Speaker A: Dang. [00:27:43] Speaker B: Yeah. I mean, just craziness. And, I mean, we can thank a lot of people not knowing facts from fiction for that happening. It gave us. Just made people absolutely crazy and give into this frenzy. And, I mean, what we're looking at is fascism, quite literally, but authoritarianism and fascism, like, thrives off of the amygdala, the lizard brain, of people's fear. That is where it does best. And when you stroke fear in people, they're going to react that way. So I'm not, like, I'm. I'm not surprised it happened. I'm still horrified that it happened. I'm glad it did. It wasn't worse because I thought it might be worse. [00:28:22] Speaker A: It might get even crazier and worse. [00:28:24] Speaker B: Yeah. Like, I mean, they found bombs near the Democratic part. Yeah. [00:28:29] Speaker A: During. [00:28:29] Speaker B: Near the. Like, the DNC office and the RNC office. They're actually still looking for the guy, I believe, who planted that. They have him on video. So I just, like, I thought an explosion was gonna go off that day, so I'm glad nothing did. [00:28:43] Speaker A: That would have been crazy. [00:28:44] Speaker B: Yeah. And I mean, like, they all were carrying guns, too, so I was like. I mean, a lot of them were. I was really worried we were gonna see something worse happen. So I'm glad it was not as bad as it could have been. [00:28:53] Speaker A: Yeah. Yeah. [00:28:54] Speaker B: It was still horrifying. [00:28:55] Speaker A: Yeah. That was wild. [00:28:56] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:28:56] Speaker A: Oh, man. Who knows? Craziness. [00:29:00] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:29:00] Speaker A: Okay, so we have some. Turbo says, I'm such a big fan of yours, Javier. Truly appreciate and love what you do. Keep growing and sh. Thank you, Turbo. We love you. Also says, I love you, Javi, with heart. Smiling. Thanks, Turbo. Okay. Shaza. Hey, Javi, Tell Carson to read My Word, which Says Muhammad. Free Palestine and Jerusalem. [00:29:26] Speaker B: I can't see, but yeah, I mean. [00:29:27] Speaker A: Yeah, he wants you to say, yeah, she said free Palestine. Boom, boom. There it is. Come and talk about S. Asterisk. Asterisk as well. Not sure what that is, but Javi can tell Carson. Okay, we. Okay, we. We already did that, but, yeah, read my comment, please. Okay, we. Did we read your comment. Carson. I mean, Turbo, Keep looking at camera. [00:29:55] Speaker B: Which one? [00:29:56] Speaker A: Which one? Which one? Which one? [00:30:00] Speaker B: I don't know which one. [00:30:01] Speaker A: What's Carson's full name? Javi? I think she just goes by Carson Band, you know? [00:30:06] Speaker B: Yeah, I just go by Carson. When it comes to social media, it's kind of like. [00:30:09] Speaker A: It's kind of like Seal, you know, or Madonna, but it's special. [00:30:13] Speaker B: Carson. It's C A, R, S, Y, N. [00:30:15] Speaker A: So C A, R, S, Y, N. Yeah. [00:30:17] Speaker B: Gotta be. My mom just had to make me different. [00:30:19] Speaker A: It's. It's. Boom, you got. It's kind of like Beyonce, you know, you just need the first. [00:30:23] Speaker B: Let's not compare me to the goddess that. All hail Beyonce. [00:30:32] Speaker A: Yes. [00:30:33] Speaker B: I can't even have my name in the same sentence as hers. [00:30:36] Speaker A: Who's your favorite artist? Artist? Music artists. [00:30:38] Speaker B: Oh, that's hard. I mean, I'm. I'm really big into edm, so. [00:30:42] Speaker A: Oh, really? [00:30:42] Speaker B: Yeah, that's more of my, like, Diplo. I mean, I've seen Diplo. Not my favorite artist. I really love Davishi. Avishi passed away a couple years ago, so he was one of my favorite artists. I like Millennium and Slander a lot, so. [00:30:58] Speaker A: Slander. [00:30:59] Speaker B: Slander. Yeah, yeah. Millennium, Millennium. [00:31:02] Speaker A: Millennium. Millennium and Slander. [00:31:04] Speaker B: Have you ever been to a music festival? [00:31:06] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, I've been to a bunch. Yeah. Yeah, I've been to. We went to what, Tomorrow World was here. [00:31:11] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, yeah. Before they took it away. [00:31:14] Speaker A: Before they took it. I went twice. [00:31:15] Speaker B: Wow. Okay. So, yeah, you went both years. I think they only had it two years. [00:31:18] Speaker A: Two years. It was crazy. Yeah. And then I went. I went to Burning Man. Oh, it's pretty cool. Yeah. A bunch of festivals, obviously. [00:31:28] Speaker B: Yeah, I do EDC every year. [00:31:29] Speaker A: Edc. [00:31:30] Speaker B: Yeah. I love edc. I want to go to EDC Vegas really badly. [00:31:34] Speaker A: I went. I had tickets to. What's the. I had tickets to Ultra. I won tickets because we made a video. [00:31:42] Speaker B: Oh, no way. [00:31:44] Speaker A: And then we were like, last minute, like, he was like, I don't want to go. And I was like, I kind of have stuff to do. So we just sold him. [00:31:52] Speaker B: I mean, hey, you can make. Make good Money that way. [00:31:55] Speaker A: It's a good money. Yeah. [00:31:56] Speaker B: The tickets are like 500. Yeah. [00:31:58] Speaker A: Something that somewhere a couple hundred bucks. [00:32:01] Speaker B: Yeah. Just. But yeah, I'm more of an EDC over ultra kind of person. Just because, like, edc. I don't. If you've ever been to an insomniac events festival, it is the most, like, immersive experience. And they just. It's a car. I mean, EDC stands for Electric Daisy Carnival. It is a carnival. They have. They have rides that are part of your ticket. So, like, you just. It's not like you have to pay anything extra for them. They have so many different stages and they have, like, performers like this. I mean, not this past year, but in EDC 2019, they had a trampoline across the stage and they had guys in, like, glow suit, like, out there doing, like, crazy flips during the set. And I mean, like, I don't participate, but I know some people who were, like, enjoying their party favors were like, freaking out. They were like, no way. [00:32:44] Speaker A: Why don't you participate? [00:32:46] Speaker B: I mean, same reason. Part of the same reason. I don't drink. I'm a tank. It just doesn't work. Just doesn't work for me. [00:32:53] Speaker A: Yeah, I've never participated. Just in middle school when, you know, you have the drugs class. [00:32:59] Speaker B: Oh, dare. [00:33:00] Speaker A: They were like, yeah, I promise you won't do it. I was like, okay, I promise. [00:33:04] Speaker B: Wow. You kept the dare promise? [00:33:05] Speaker A: I kept it, yeah. I just, like, promised myself, like, no, I won't do it. [00:33:09] Speaker B: Yeah. My one thing that works for me and like, I don't do this. I did it in college, don't do it anymore. Was like, you know, weed marijuana and decriminalize and legalize that, and I think we'll be a lot better off in our country. [00:33:19] Speaker A: You think, you know, you think Joe Biden would, like, legalize it? [00:33:23] Speaker B: So I know in the Senate or in Congress right now, they're talking about legalizing it. I know on Joe Biden's agenda, he said to decriminalize it. I. I'm. Imagine if it were to actually successfully pass the House and Senate, I believe he would sign off on legalizing it. [00:33:39] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, of course I would like. [00:33:40] Speaker B: To believe that, but I mean, it can only do good for us. It would only boost our economy. We've seen what it did for Canada. I mean, Canada, like, had a short, like, a shortage of it, but, like, it's given them a big boost to their economy. Colorado, California, all of them. So we only do good things, give. [00:33:56] Speaker A: More jobs so, yeah, more jobs, more opportunities, less black market. [00:34:00] Speaker B: Yeah. And I think regulation helps a lot of things. Keeps people safer because, I mean, we see solve for a few years. I mean, I think it's still an issue with synthetic marijuana, like, killing people. [00:34:08] Speaker A: Oh. [00:34:09] Speaker B: Or at least giving them, like, seizures and, like, hospitalizing people. So you regulate it. People are safer. [00:34:15] Speaker A: What the heck is synthetic marijuana? Like, it's like fake marijuana, but, like, what the. [00:34:19] Speaker B: I mean, they, like, lace other things in it. So it's just like. I think. I mean, in Jacksonville, Florida, it was a big issue. That's where my mom lives, so. [00:34:28] Speaker A: Hey, Mom. [00:34:29] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:34:30] Speaker A: Hi, Mom. [00:34:30] Speaker B: I told her not to watch this. [00:34:32] Speaker A: Really? Why do you think was going to be crazy? [00:34:34] Speaker B: I just was like, I don't. I don't know if this would be your scene, this French show where she's talking about politics. My mom's. My mom's older, so. [00:34:44] Speaker A: She's older. Yeah. She doesn't go to the edc. [00:34:47] Speaker B: No. I'm trying to get my dad. Dad to go. Yeah. [00:34:50] Speaker A: You take them to, like, something like. What is it? Electric? What's the thing they have in shaky beats? [00:34:57] Speaker B: Oh, shaky. They don't do that here anymore. They. Yeah, they said they're not going to do it anymore. [00:35:00] Speaker A: Why not? I love shaky beats. Shaky beats and shaky knees. [00:35:03] Speaker B: They do shaky knees still. They said they're not going to do shaky beats anymore. [00:35:06] Speaker A: Dang. [00:35:06] Speaker B: I have no idea why. [00:35:07] Speaker A: What a slob. [00:35:08] Speaker B: I mean, there's Imagine here, so I imagine. [00:35:11] Speaker A: I did go to Imagine. Really Cool. [00:35:14] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:35:14] Speaker A: Yeah. At the race park and. [00:35:16] Speaker B: Yeah, so they. They changed it, actually. The. This year, it's going to be. Well, if it happens this year, it's going to be where they hold Tomorrow World. [00:35:23] Speaker A: Oh, really? [00:35:24] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:35:25] Speaker A: Hopefully they do it right. [00:35:26] Speaker B: Yeah, that's what I've heard a lot of people say. [00:35:28] Speaker A: Like, there are so many things, like they cut corners and it's just, like, so stupid. Like, y'all did all this cool stuff. That is good. But it's like, you didn't plan for, like, cars driving in the mud. [00:35:39] Speaker B: It's like rain at all or rain. [00:35:42] Speaker A: Like, it's like, what? Yeah, okay, I guess. Okay, let's. Who this guy said, oh, Avicii is amazing. Says Shola. [00:35:52] Speaker B: Avishi is amazing recipes. [00:35:54] Speaker A: She is amazing. Wish me luck tomorrow. Have an interview tomorrow afternoon. Okay, Shola. [00:36:01] Speaker B: Good luck, dude. [00:36:01] Speaker A: Good luck. Good luck, dude. Dang. [00:36:03] Speaker B: You're gonna kill that interview. [00:36:04] Speaker A: You're gonna kill that interview. [00:36:06] Speaker B: We believe in you. [00:36:07] Speaker A: We believe me and Carson. We believe that you're gonna murder it. [00:36:10] Speaker B: We're sending you good vibes. [00:36:11] Speaker A: Great vibes. [00:36:12] Speaker B: The best vibes. [00:36:13] Speaker A: The best. [00:36:15] Speaker B: You're gonna manifest that job. [00:36:17] Speaker A: Manifest destiny. Yeah, yeah, I feel good about that. [00:36:22] Speaker B: Okay. [00:36:22] Speaker A: Damn, you are glowing when smiling, Javier. Smile more hun bun. [00:36:31] Speaker B: Oh my God, you do kind of glow. [00:36:33] Speaker A: Oh really? [00:36:33] Speaker B: Yeah, like you're like this aura. [00:36:35] Speaker A: This aura. Well, you have a nice. I would say that you have a glow as well. You have really nice, nice shaped teeth. [00:36:41] Speaker B: Oh, thank you. [00:36:43] Speaker A: Have you got that compliment before? [00:36:44] Speaker B: No, I've always been very self conscious of my teeth. [00:36:46] Speaker A: Really? Why? [00:36:47] Speaker B: Because this is embarrassing, but people used to bully me and say I have horse teeth. [00:36:53] Speaker A: No, you have great teeth. [00:36:54] Speaker B: Thank you. [00:36:55] Speaker A: I appreciate it. [00:36:56] Speaker B: Thank you so much. [00:36:57] Speaker A: Do your family have these shaped teeth as well? [00:37:01] Speaker B: Yeah, I mean my mom's teeth are like a little bit smaller and like my dad has like similar teeth to me. So. [00:37:06] Speaker A: Yeah, I've always liked big teeth. Like you do have bigger teeth. [00:37:11] Speaker B: It's very interesting. [00:37:12] Speaker A: Is that weird? [00:37:13] Speaker B: I mean it's just like a very interesting like detail. [00:37:16] Speaker A: I'm very. Well, you know, like I'm a photographer so I like study faces. So, you know, it's like after a while of like, you know, looking at hundreds, thousands, tens of thousands of faces, I realize the features that I'm more attracted to. [00:37:30] Speaker B: It's fair. Fair. [00:37:32] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. Like really small team teeth. I think I'm highly unattracted to small teeth. [00:37:38] Speaker B: Is there any like particular reason for that or is it like, does it remind you, like baby teeth or something? [00:37:43] Speaker A: Maybe, maybe it's so. It's so like, it just really throws me off. [00:37:48] Speaker B: I try to get to the root causes of these things. Right. [00:37:50] Speaker A: You're like, if it's like, maybe it's like a baby thing or I don't know, I don't know what it is. [00:37:56] Speaker B: Maybe it just makes someone look a little bit more immature. I guess. [00:37:59] Speaker A: Maybe it is. [00:38:00] Speaker B: I don't know. [00:38:00] Speaker A: No, I have no idea where it's. I, I always wonder like most of like what we are attracted to, is it more nature? Is it nurture? Like what is it? You know what I'm saying? Like it's a mix of both. Definitely. [00:38:12] Speaker B: I think. Yeah. And I mean, I think we can also look at like the media for a lot of like the things with the. Just the way that people are framed and you know, just the kind of image that that is pushed. So I think a lot of people get it though. I mean, I don't have a preference. Like I don't have a type. Like, people are always like, what's your type? I don't have a type. I just know that my type is not blonde. [00:38:38] Speaker A: Not. You do not like blonde Men or women. Or women. [00:38:42] Speaker B: I'm pansexual. [00:38:43] Speaker A: Pansexual. Okay, wait. Well, first, tell us what features attract you the most out of any person, and then tell us more about pansexual. But first, the features. [00:38:55] Speaker B: Well, feature. I mean, so personality really is, like, the. That sounds so cliche, but, like, it really is the thing that, like, gets me most because, like, someone can be, you know, physically attractive, but the second they open their mouth and sound dumb, I'm just like, I can't do it. Like, communicate. If you can't communicate well with me, I will instantly be like, no, I can't do that. [00:39:16] Speaker A: They're dead to you immediately, pretty much. Nice. [00:39:22] Speaker B: But eyes. Eyes are really eyes for me. [00:39:26] Speaker A: What color eyes are most attractive? [00:39:28] Speaker B: It's not even really about the color eyes, but I think it's more of just like, I being able to, like, see people's eyes in general. Like, I mean, and some stoners have, like, a disadvantage there because they're, like, squinting, and I think it's good. [00:39:40] Speaker A: Yeah, that makes sense. So do you like big eyes or just. [00:39:44] Speaker B: I mean. Yeah, I kind of. I mean. And obviously, if you have, like, a unique colored eye, then, like, I will just be like, whoa, awesome. That's the thing. And a good smile, I think, is good. And it doesn't matter what they show. [00:39:59] Speaker A: Are you just trying to explain me? Are you just trying to. [00:40:02] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, definitely. I'm hitting on you. Heavy. [00:40:03] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. Is that true? [00:40:09] Speaker B: Is that. [00:40:09] Speaker A: Sure. Oh, that's good. That's good. That's fun. So I really love blue eyes. Really blue eyes. [00:40:17] Speaker B: Oh, so now you're hitting on me? [00:40:18] Speaker A: I guess so. I guess so. No, it's really so. I did not realize. It's crazy because I constantly discovering what I like specifically, and I realized within the last year, I'm like, wow. I always knew I liked blue eyes, but I didn't realize I really liked blue eyes. [00:40:36] Speaker B: It was like, blue eyes are really a big, attractive feature for you. [00:40:40] Speaker A: They are, yeah. It's weird. I don't know. [00:40:42] Speaker B: I mean, it's not weird. [00:40:44] Speaker A: I think it's weird that, you know, I'm, you know, constantly discovering what I like and don't like. You know? [00:40:52] Speaker B: I mean, isn't that part of growing? [00:40:54] Speaker A: It's part of growing, but it's like something like that, you know, I feel like I would have known that sooner. You know, like, I've always, like, I've just. Like recently, like a year ago, I thought back to all the people that I was most attracted to. I was like, they have blue eyes. That's so weird. [00:41:12] Speaker B: Blue eyes are my type. [00:41:13] Speaker A: That's so weird. I feel like it's weird. [00:41:16] Speaker B: I mean, I. Yeah, I look at my people. I mean, I haven't dated a lot of people, but there's like no unifying factors. [00:41:23] Speaker A: There's no unifying factors? [00:41:24] Speaker B: No. [00:41:24] Speaker A: Okay, give us like one end and then another end and I'll give you my end and another. [00:41:29] Speaker B: So like my high school sweetheart was a like, like six foot one, baseball playing, ginger. [00:41:38] Speaker A: Okay. [00:41:39] Speaker B: And then my college sweetheart was like a 5, 9, like brown eyed Cuban. [00:41:47] Speaker A: Oh, okay. Yeah, yeah. [00:41:48] Speaker B: It's like, I like. And this comes in with the pansexuality thing. Like, I'm just more attracted to, like people for who they are rather than how they look. I mean, unless you're blonde, then like, I'm sorry, I don't know what it is about blondes. I just can't do it. [00:42:05] Speaker A: So wait, so tell us more about pansexual, because I'm sure a lot of people don't know. [00:42:10] Speaker B: Yeah, right. So, like, a lot of people look at like, pansexual and bisexual as the same thing. The reason I prefer pansexual is because it is explicitly inclusive of non binary people. [00:42:21] Speaker A: Okay. [00:42:22] Speaker B: One of the people I dated in college was non binary. They are awesome. So that's part of the reason I consider myself pansexual. I mean, you know, girls, guys, they themselves. [00:42:32] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:42:32] Speaker B: So. And like, a lot of people think that pansexual explicitly includes trans people, but trans people are just men or women, you know, like, it's just, they are, you know, if they'll say it's a trans woman, like, no, that's a, that's a woman, you know, so they still fall into the bisexual thing. And that's why pansexual for me is just explicitly inclusive of non binary people. So. But yeah, that's cool. Yeah. Or the fan favorite of. Yeah, I like pots and pans. [00:42:59] Speaker A: Is that a thing? I like pots and pans. [00:43:01] Speaker B: I'm pansexual. Like, show me a sexy pot. [00:43:03] Speaker A: Show me sexy pot. Bring that pot over here. [00:43:08] Speaker B: Let me holler at that pan. [00:43:09] Speaker A: As long as it ain't blonde. Yeah, as long as it have blonde pants, we're all good. [00:43:15] Speaker B: Yeah, pretty much. [00:43:16] Speaker A: That's legit. [00:43:16] Speaker B: So, so what's your, your like, in spectrum with. [00:43:20] Speaker A: Oh, my. So I have a very. Like, I. I'm not. Like, age doesn't matter. Obviously. They have to be of age. [00:43:28] Speaker B: Right. [00:43:28] Speaker A: But, like. Like, my age range is pretty wide. [00:43:31] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:43:32] Speaker A: And then, like, weight really doesn't matter. [00:43:34] Speaker B: Okay. [00:43:34] Speaker A: Unless somebody's, like, really skinny. Then I'm like, okay, it's too skinny for me. [00:43:39] Speaker B: Okay. [00:43:40] Speaker A: Or, like, too ripped. Like, I can't date a girl that's, like, as buff as me like that. I can't. I can't do it. I can't do it. [00:43:48] Speaker B: Okay. I could roast you for that, but I'll let it slide. [00:43:50] Speaker A: Actually, there's this one girl on social media. I forget her name, but she's super ripped. And I was like, I'm attracted to her. So there's one like, wow, she's got, like, half a half hair. She's got the pullover. She's like. Matt, like, bigger. Like, much bigger than me. [00:44:06] Speaker B: Would crush you. [00:44:08] Speaker A: Yeah, she would crush me. But she's, like, super sexy in the face. She's, like, super feminine. Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, whatever. But I guess, like, what's my end? Spectrum. What's my end. Like, I dated this really, you know, really fluffy girl. She was super attractive, really cool. And then on the other end of the spectrum would be. I don't know. I don't know, maybe like this. But she's kind of like my type, so I can't even. Like, she's, like, a gymnast with black hair and, like, blue eyes. [00:44:49] Speaker B: Yeah, Back to the blue eyes. [00:44:51] Speaker A: Back to the blue eyes. So I don't know. I'm all over the place. [00:44:54] Speaker B: Do you have a height preference? [00:44:56] Speaker A: No preference at all. [00:44:57] Speaker B: All right. [00:44:58] Speaker A: No height preference. If I'm thinking about procreation and my children, I guess the taller the better, I guess. [00:45:05] Speaker B: Okay. [00:45:08] Speaker A: Okay. Because I'm like, yeah, I would want athletes, wouldn't I? I do want my children to be basketball players. I don't know. [00:45:16] Speaker B: Whoever ends up with me is just screwed. [00:45:18] Speaker A: How tall are you? [00:45:18] Speaker B: Like, five, one and a half. [00:45:19] Speaker A: Five one. See, I don't see. I didn't see that you were short. [00:45:23] Speaker B: Hey, I radiate tall energy. [00:45:24] Speaker A: You do radiate tall energy. [00:45:26] Speaker B: It's just part. I'm sure I was, like, really tall in a past life. Like, I'm very sure of it. [00:45:30] Speaker A: You don't seem five wide. [00:45:32] Speaker B: I. Yeah, I always get that People just like, when did you get short? I'm like, I've always been this short. I've been this height since the fifth Grade. [00:45:40] Speaker A: Are you. Do you wear a heel. Heels at. [00:45:42] Speaker B: Occasionally. I mean, these are. [00:45:44] Speaker A: That's not even a big heel. [00:45:45] Speaker B: Well, this isn't a heel at all. [00:45:47] Speaker A: Like. Well, that's like a one inch hill, right? [00:45:50] Speaker B: Maybe like half. I don't know. But like, I. I mean, I wear heels sometimes, but, like, just. It's the funniest thing because every time, like, people meet me for the first time, they're like, you are so much shorter than I thought. And I'm like, yeah. [00:46:03] Speaker A: Is that a. Is that. Do you care? Does that offend you? [00:46:06] Speaker B: No, I don't care. I mean, like, I'm. I'm fun sized, so. [00:46:09] Speaker A: Fun size? Yeah, fun size, pretty much. What's the. What's the, like, compliment that you love the most and then the. The comment that you hate the most that you get? Like, I mean, relatively. [00:46:24] Speaker B: Honestly, I. I do get a lot of pride when people are like, you don't seem short. Like, I get a lot of pride when people, like, tell me they're like, you seem a lot taller than you are. Because I'm just like, yeah, like, I radiate tall energy. Like, it's just like, tall is a mindset. [00:46:36] Speaker A: Tall is a mindset. It's true. Yeah. [00:46:38] Speaker B: Yeah. I mean, until I get to concerts and I can't see, but I'm trying. [00:46:43] Speaker A: To think, well, it's a festival. You hop on somebody's shoulders, boom. [00:46:45] Speaker B: Yeah, that. I mean, it's the funny thing about being short, too, is like, people are like, short person, and they just, like, throw me on their shoulders. Like, I didn't even ask for this. And suddenly I'm in the air, like. [00:46:54] Speaker A: Okay, now I see everything. [00:46:56] Speaker B: Yeah. It's like, all right, thanks, dude. Thank you. Tall person. Tall, strong person. [00:47:01] Speaker A: Right. [00:47:03] Speaker B: Thing I hate the most. I don't know, like, there's not anything that's coming to mind that it's like, I hate that. [00:47:11] Speaker A: Right? [00:47:12] Speaker B: I mean, there's something. I don't hate it. It definitely, like, I've learned to love it, but, like, I get. Sometimes I get a lot that, like, you're a very masculine female, which, like, it doesn't bother me. I know that. It's like, I know that I embrace it. That's like, just part of who I am. Always have been that way. But something about a guy saying it to you when you're on, like, a. [00:47:34] Speaker A: Date, you're very masculine female. [00:47:36] Speaker B: Yeah. Like, I had a guy I went on a date with, like, a couple months ago, and he was like, yeah, you're like the Most, like, masculine woman I've ever, like, gone out with. And I'm like, thanks. Like, I don't know how to respond to that. But, like, he's not wrong. It's just like. It's just weird to hear it from someone you're kind of seeing. [00:47:54] Speaker A: Right? You're just. You're just confident. Like, very confident. [00:47:58] Speaker B: Yeah, that's. I mean, yeah, that's the thing with it. Like, women who are confident are told they're, like, very masculine, but. [00:48:04] Speaker A: Oh, that's society. [00:48:06] Speaker B: It's part of. Part of the patriarchy. [00:48:08] Speaker A: The patriarchy. [00:48:10] Speaker B: Part of the patriarchy. [00:48:11] Speaker A: Oh, my God. Society. God, that's crazy. Wait, so how do you. How do you meet people? On dates? Are you in Hinge? How does that work, Bumble? [00:48:20] Speaker B: Pretty much, yeah. Yeah. Hinge like, freaked me out. I just, like, really? Yeah, I just did not. I tried it in college and I just didn't like that. But, yeah, with Bumble, I have the control and I always, like, I feel bad, but, like, I always use, like, the same pickup line. [00:48:35] Speaker A: What do you do? [00:48:36] Speaker B: What's your pickup? Well, now I feel like when I say it, I'm gonna have to change it. I always use a cheesy pickup line, right? Because I just, like, I loved receiving cheesy pickup lines when I was on Tinder. I got banned off of Tinder. I don't know why you got banned. I have no idea why. [00:48:49] Speaker A: What? [00:48:49] Speaker B: They don't tell you why either, so that is rude. [00:48:53] Speaker A: That is rude. [00:48:54] Speaker B: Very rude. [00:48:55] Speaker A: Random. [00:48:57] Speaker B: And there's no appeal process. [00:49:00] Speaker A: No appeal process. [00:49:01] Speaker B: I'm just, like, banned off Tinder. Don't know why. [00:49:03] Speaker A: You create a new Facebook account. [00:49:05] Speaker B: I tried to create a different account, but, like, they, like, found my. The second that they, like, registered my images, they immediately took me off. [00:49:12] Speaker A: No way. [00:49:12] Speaker B: They're like, re banned. [00:49:14] Speaker A: This is what you do. Wear fake nose on the new Facebook. And then those are the. That they won't know. Yeah. Completely change your eyeballs or something crazy. [00:49:25] Speaker B: Well, then I would lose my best feature. [00:49:27] Speaker A: The blue eyes, complete. Make small teeth or something. Then you lose your other best feature. [00:49:32] Speaker B: Damn it. It's at a loss here. You can't win. [00:49:35] Speaker A: You're at a loss. You can't win. [00:49:36] Speaker B: Can't win. Yeah. The cheesy pickup line I always do is like, are you. Like, are you a parking ticket? Cuz you got fine written all over you. People are always like, that's horrible. And I'm like, well, that's. That's the point. You responded, and I didn't say, hey. [00:49:53] Speaker A: That's funny. That guys are like, that's. That's horrible. [00:49:57] Speaker B: But, like, it's better than hey. [00:49:59] Speaker A: It is way better than hey. [00:50:00] Speaker B: Like, I wouldn't. Like, I never responded to people who were like, hey. [00:50:03] Speaker A: No. So I get so many people on my Instagram, like, fans or Instagram Facebook that are like, hey. And I'm just like, I'm not. I'm not. I'm sorry. I'm not going to respond to this ever. I'm never going to respond to hey. [00:50:17] Speaker B: Yeah, I have that in my, like, like, message request right now, like, on Instagram from, like, some people from TikTok, and they're just like, hey. And I'm like, I. No, I appreciate you following me, but, like, I just can't. What am I supposed to say? [00:50:30] Speaker A: I would never respond to hey, but I will always respond to, like, if somebody's like, hey, Javier, Like, I really love your work and I'm your biggest fan and this interview is great. Like, I'm like, oh, cool. Like, I'm totally having a convo with you. [00:50:44] Speaker B: But yeah, like, I interact with the people who, like, give me something to work with. And, like, like, I appreciate the show support, too, but it's like, I can't really do much with hey. [00:50:52] Speaker A: No. Hey. They're not doing anything for us. Okay. So terrible. Says attractive eyes. Hey, terrible again. I have long hair than hers and I ain't a girl. Well, that's. Well, there it is. I think that's a fact. I mean, if it's true. It's fact. [00:51:11] Speaker B: I like long hair on guys. Guys. [00:51:13] Speaker A: Oh, really? [00:51:14] Speaker B: Yeah. I think long hair on guys looks cool. [00:51:16] Speaker A: Yeah. How long? [00:51:17] Speaker B: I mean, obviously, like, not, like. [00:51:20] Speaker A: So I used to have hair, like, here. I think my hair technically is, like, right here now. But it's, like, so curly. [00:51:26] Speaker B: Yeah, right? [00:51:27] Speaker A: Yeah. Love to talk seductive way. I don't know if that is a question or statement, but you're welcome. DeWalt. Wow, that is a complicated name. It's Dewal. Kurti Varshini. You're definitely from India, I think. What part of India you from? [00:51:50] Speaker B: Okay, assumption. [00:51:51] Speaker A: But I'm pretty sure. Pretty sure. [00:51:55] Speaker B: All right. [00:51:55] Speaker A: Pretty sure. [00:51:56] Speaker B: Strong. Oh, yes. We have a game that's been sitting here. [00:51:58] Speaker A: Okay, the game's here. No, but the conversation was so interesting. That was good. That was good. You're good at this game. You're easy. You're into politics. You talk all the time. This is great. [00:52:10] Speaker B: You know how to talk. [00:52:12] Speaker A: Okay, so this is. So what's something you've always done and only realized as an adult that it was weird. [00:52:23] Speaker B: What? [00:52:25] Speaker A: Okay. Yeah, that's. I don't even know if that. Okay. I don't even know if we have anything. There's a B answer. There's a B question. What would you never, ever want my help with? Are you thinking what I'm thinking? You think? Okay, am I thinking. [00:52:47] Speaker B: What are you thinking? [00:52:48] Speaker A: I was thinking pooping. [00:52:49] Speaker B: I mean, I was thinking like, feminine products, but like, similar. Similar stroke there. [00:52:55] Speaker A: Similar. [00:52:56] Speaker B: Like, like, I would not want you to be like. I would not ever be like, hey, pick me up. Pick me up some, like, feminine products. [00:53:01] Speaker A: Oh, pick me up some feminine products. [00:53:02] Speaker B: Yeah, like, would not be down for that. [00:53:04] Speaker A: But that would be weird. [00:53:05] Speaker B: Yeah, but pooping works too. [00:53:09] Speaker A: The first thing that kind of. I'm just like, I'm pooping and you're, like, tapping my back like, come on, baby, get it out. [00:53:15] Speaker B: You can do it. I believe in you. That's my big, strong man. [00:53:22] Speaker A: I don't think no. [00:53:24] Speaker B: Hard pass, hard pass, hard pass. [00:53:28] Speaker A: Yeah, you're turn. [00:53:29] Speaker B: Cool. I gotta bring it close so I can see. Do you think you are more or less attractive than the average person? And why. [00:53:41] Speaker A: I think I'm more attractive, just to be honest. [00:53:44] Speaker B: Why? [00:53:45] Speaker A: Just because I'm hella confident and I believe it no matter what. No matter what I look like, I feel like I believe, like. [00:53:50] Speaker B: All right, fair, fair. I like confidence. [00:53:53] Speaker A: I feel like I would need. I would like mine. Mind myself into believing it no matter what. [00:53:59] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. I mean, it's all about the mindset, right? It's all about same with like, manifestation, you just. [00:54:04] Speaker A: Manifest destiny. [00:54:05] Speaker B: The manifest destiny is not a good thing to keep going back to. It led to so many horrible things in this country. [00:54:13] Speaker A: Yeah, it did. It did. [00:54:15] Speaker B: But, yeah, just manifestation in a general, like, as a mindset. Yes. [00:54:23] Speaker A: What about you? [00:54:26] Speaker B: I. I guess I'd say, like a slightly more attractive than the average person. Like, I think I got the confidence, like, on the same stroke as me. And I think the eyes really do it for me. But I'm just like, at the same time, I look like a lot of white girls. [00:54:42] Speaker A: I thought you were going the, like, humble route. But then you're saying, like, you look like. No, you're definitely more attractive than the average person. [00:54:49] Speaker B: Thank you. I really appreciate that. Thank you for flattering me. [00:54:55] Speaker A: Describe your first real kiss. Then describe your last kiss. Wow. Okay, okay, okay. I can. I've got. I've got it. My first real kiss. I was in hallway. 8th grade hallway. A Hallway, Yes. [00:55:14] Speaker B: School. Scandalous. [00:55:15] Speaker A: I know, scandalous, right? Middle school, by the way. [00:55:18] Speaker B: Really? You said eighth grade. I had no idea. [00:55:21] Speaker A: Yeah, you know, you know, it's different in different countries. You know, you could be, you know. So I'm walking down the hall and actually the girl that was my first girl I ever asked out, right. But this was like two years later or something, she turns around and grabs me and kisses me. [00:55:41] Speaker B: Out of nowhere. [00:55:42] Speaker A: Out of nowhere. Well, I think it was like we had been eyeing each other for a while. Like it was like sexual tension building up somewhere. [00:55:49] Speaker B: That 8th grade, 14 year old tension. [00:55:52] Speaker A: Yeah, Just over like weeks or months. And she just committed because I was like so like not make. I was like such a, like you. [00:56:00] Speaker B: Know, a spazzy 14 year old, right? [00:56:04] Speaker A: Yeah, exactly. And she just did it and it was crazy. [00:56:08] Speaker B: I was got confidence. [00:56:09] Speaker A: It was like kind of hot. Like I was like damn. [00:56:11] Speaker B: Yeah, I think that's really hot. It's just like she knew what she wanted and she did it. [00:56:15] Speaker A: I respect it wholeheartedly. [00:56:17] Speaker B: Okay. [00:56:17] Speaker A: I remember her name is Tiffany Nelson. I remember her. [00:56:19] Speaker B: Oh, shout out Tiffany Nelson. [00:56:21] Speaker A: Shout out. I. I also had another first kiss, but it was in kindergarten. [00:56:25] Speaker B: Okay. [00:56:26] Speaker A: So I don't think it really counts. [00:56:27] Speaker B: I mean I had my first kiss and getting like first kiss in kindergarten as well. But what's your last, your like most recent kiss? [00:56:33] Speaker A: It was just like a pack goodbye. [00:56:35] Speaker B: Okay. [00:56:36] Speaker A: By. Yeah, that counts. [00:56:38] Speaker B: Yeah, I, my, my first kiss, I was 12. [00:56:41] Speaker A: Oh wow. [00:56:42] Speaker B: Yeah, it was actually like really romantic. I mean not really. The guy had been like giving. So he was, I was in sixth grade, he was in seventh grade, we lived in the same neighborhood and he had been giving me crap all week just like haha, you've never had your first kiss? And like it was October of my sixth grade year. Like I, I was a child and he's like haha, you like just teasing me on the bus every day about how I haven' my first kiss. And I was like okay. And so then he like came over to my house on that Friday. So that started on Monday. On Friday he came over to my house. Like I said, we live in the same neighborhood, we're like on my trampoline and like just like jumping around. And I was like really nervous because like I knew what was coming. Oh yeah, I knew. Okay, Women know everything, they know everything. But I just like, I knew what was coming. And so like then we were just like sitting there and he was like, can I kiss you? And I was like I'm nervous. And he was like, why are you nervous? And I was like, I've never done it before. I'm nervous. And so he was like, oh, like, I'll just kiss you on the cheek then. So he like kissed me on the cheek and I like looked at him and like right then the rain started falling. [00:57:51] Speaker A: Oh my God. [00:57:52] Speaker B: Yeah, the whole like movie thing, like rain starts falling. And then he like kissed me and I was like, okay. [00:57:59] Speaker A: Oh, wow. [00:57:59] Speaker B: Yeah. So it was like, yeah. [00:58:01] Speaker A: How do you even walk away from that? You just like leave you on the trampoline and he just walks up and looks away and looks. [00:58:08] Speaker B: He was just like, see you tomorrow kind of. He was like, he's like, I gotta go home now. But like, I'll see you. He was like, I'll see you at the bus stop on Monday or whatever. And then we started like dating for like a month or whatever. [00:58:22] Speaker A: How was that? Oh, that's our food. [00:58:25] Speaker B: Oh, dope. Yeah, he. He cheated on. [00:58:28] Speaker A: No. In a month. [00:58:29] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:58:30] Speaker A: What a deep. [00:58:31] Speaker B: Yeah, I mean in sixth. I mean he was seventh grade, so what, what could I expect from a seventh grader? An older man. [00:58:37] Speaker A: Older man. And, and like in that like age range, like one year is like huge. [00:58:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:58:44] Speaker A: Such a big difference. [00:58:45] Speaker B: I dated a guy like later that year and we dated for like seven months, I think. So that was like long relationship. People were like, oh my God, they're going to get married. [00:58:55] Speaker A: Oh wow. [00:58:55] Speaker B: I. I have not talked to the dude ever since Sense. But. [00:58:59] Speaker A: Oh, wow. Yeah. [00:58:59] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:59:00] Speaker A: That's crazy. [00:59:01] Speaker B: Yeah. So I had a romantic first kiss as a 12 year old. [00:59:04] Speaker A: That's pretty romantic, right? [00:59:05] Speaker B: Like the rain falling. It's cinematic. [00:59:08] Speaker A: And you're looking at each other's eyes. Did he go in slow? Did he go in slow? [00:59:12] Speaker B: I kind, I mean, in that moment it felt like everything was moving slowly. Just like. Cuz I was like, I can picture it. [00:59:20] Speaker A: This is great. Oh my God. [00:59:23] Speaker B: The funniest thing was like I. He left, I went inside and I was like about to go upstairs and my mom was like, look at me. And I like looked at her and she. And I was just kind of like, I couldn't stop smiling. And she was like, he kissed you? And I was like, again, women always know. Mothers always know. So like, I was just like, okay, somebody's gonna know. Yeah. No, they're gonna know. How would they know? They're gonna know. [00:59:48] Speaker A: That's crazy. [00:59:49] Speaker B: Yeah. And the latest one was like similar. Just a pet. Goodbye. Yeah. [00:59:54] Speaker A: Knows that makes sense. [00:59:55] Speaker B: Adult life, you know, Adult life just it is what it is. [01:00:00] Speaker A: It is what it is. Okay, so my most romantic kiss. [01:00:04] Speaker B: Okay, okay. [01:00:05] Speaker A: So I dated this girl for two years, but our first kiss, our first interaction. [01:00:09] Speaker B: How old were you? [01:00:10] Speaker A: This was. This was four or five years ago. [01:00:13] Speaker B: Okay. [01:00:14] Speaker A: Okay. So I'm in a club, by the way. I'm in. [01:00:17] Speaker B: Oh, so romantic. [01:00:18] Speaker A: So romantic. But check me out. Dive bar. Even more romantic. Okay, right. The most divest of ours. [01:00:25] Speaker B: The divest. [01:00:27] Speaker A: So I am. And this is back when I was drinking, so I had a little buzz, so I was just feeling myself. [01:00:32] Speaker B: Liquid courage. [01:00:33] Speaker A: I was feeling myself. [01:00:34] Speaker B: Yeah, Liquid courage. [01:00:35] Speaker A: So I'm, like, going through the crowd, and I see her, and this is like. We're, like, on other ends of the crowd, and we just are. The eyes are locked the whole time, and I'm, like, pushing people out, like. Like, walking out of the way, and I just, like, slowly walk and, like, kiss her on the lips, and she's like, hi, who are you? And I'm like, I'm Javier. [01:01:03] Speaker B: Did you say it just like that or. Because you were in a dive bar, you were like, I'm Javier. [01:01:07] Speaker A: No, I said. I said I was like, I'm Javier McIntosh. I was just like. Just kept the stare going. She was like, oh. [01:01:18] Speaker B: That is some confidence. [01:01:20] Speaker A: I was pretty confident. [01:01:21] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. The look on your face, were you, like, moving people? [01:01:25] Speaker A: I was like movie people. Like, the lights are shining. [01:01:28] Speaker B: And so you had your cinematic moment there. [01:01:30] Speaker A: It was pretty cinematic, yeah. [01:01:32] Speaker B: It's just. [01:01:33] Speaker A: I feel good about that. Yeah. [01:01:36] Speaker B: Didn't say hi. Nothing else. Just led with the kiss. [01:01:39] Speaker A: Led with the kiss. Sometimes that's the way to go. [01:01:41] Speaker B: I mean, hey, so. [01:01:44] Speaker A: Oh, okay. Oh, wait, hold on. They say, who. Who is she? That's Marco. So this is Carson. Marco just came in. She is the garlic God on Instagram. So Instagram. GarlicGod. Underscore. Don't forget the underscore. And we are beautiful. We are human, beautiful creatures. Thanks. I appreciate that. And he loves to talk in seductive way. Did we already Did I read that earlier? Am I talking in a seductive way? [01:02:18] Speaker B: I mean, when you just said your name a second ago with that story, that was quite seductive. That was quite seductive. Mind you, this question. Neither of these questions really work. [01:02:32] Speaker A: What is it? [01:02:32] Speaker B: Well, the. A. What is. If I didn't have my current job, what do you see me doing? [01:02:37] Speaker A: Oh, okay. Because you don't have a job right now. [01:02:40] Speaker B: I mean, I do. Social media is my job. I make some money off my TikTok, so. [01:02:44] Speaker A: Oh, that's dope. Yeah. So if you didn't do tick tock social media, I would see you doing. Ah man, just something where you're speaking to people. Like anything where like public speaking is evolved. [01:02:59] Speaker B: Yeah. Fair. Yeah, that would. I see that as well. [01:03:02] Speaker A: Yes. [01:03:03] Speaker B: With you, I would say I could see you doing real estate. [01:03:06] Speaker A: Real estate? [01:03:07] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:03:07] Speaker A: Why real estate? [01:03:08] Speaker B: Because you just see. Well, because like you seem like the kind of person that could like really just meet someone off the bat and just like make them feel like your best. Because like when you're a good real estate agent, you make them feel like they're your best friends and like you can trust them. So you're like, oh, I got the best thing for you here. Like I think you could really sell. Like one, you could sell well secondly, houses in particular, I think you could do like a good like personal relationship with or make it feel like a personal relationship with people and sell well. [01:03:36] Speaker A: I like it. [01:03:37] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:03:37] Speaker A: I thought about getting into real estate actually. [01:03:40] Speaker B: Really? [01:03:40] Speaker A: Just because I love the housing market and. [01:03:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:03:44] Speaker A: Selling and I'd like real estate. [01:03:50] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:03:51] Speaker A: But like you know, it's a lot of. It's a lot of work. Oh my God. My real estate agent right now. So we're looking at it. Well, we're moving forward. A place, a house and oh my. I was like, dude, she's doing so much. [01:04:05] Speaker B: Yes. [01:04:05] Speaker A: And it's like 20 emails and she's killing it. And so I've known her for a while. Shout out to Ashley real estate. You know Ashley Mayor Phillips, killing it right now. She. So I've known her for years but like what really got me is like she has a real estate specific Instagram and I was watching it and I forgot actually I didn't know she did in like real estate. And I saw, I came across that page. I was like, oh yeah, obviously I could, I could tell you take this really seriously and your fun with it because she had these funny videos about real estate. I was like, oh, that's cool. All right, so yeah, that's it. That's my story for the day. [01:04:44] Speaker B: Well, I hope you find the perfect place. [01:04:47] Speaker A: The perfect. I think we, I think we found the perfect place. [01:04:50] Speaker B: Oh, awesome. [01:04:51] Speaker A: Hopefully. Okay, so I think our food is here. So let's. We're going to do two more. One or two more questions and then we'll wrap it up. Okay. How are we right for each other romantically? Certainly you can think of at least one way we're compatible. [01:05:07] Speaker B: I mean I got the eyes. [01:05:12] Speaker A: That is true. [01:05:14] Speaker B: And the teeth apparently. [01:05:15] Speaker A: This is so True. And you have a really good nose. Wow. [01:05:19] Speaker B: You just keep flattering me. I mean, just. You got to stop. I'm going to start blushing. [01:05:23] Speaker A: Are you going to start blushing? [01:05:24] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:05:24] Speaker A: What's your love language, by the way? [01:05:28] Speaker B: It's like a combination of the two. Just because it just kind of like. [01:05:32] Speaker A: Oh, okay. Okay. He's got it. Okay, that's our food. That's our food. Coming. Our food is coming. Thanks, Miles. [01:05:39] Speaker B: It kind of like alternates like, like, physical touch. Right. But some days I'm like, get away from me. Like, don't touch me because I'm, like, in a mood or something or just having, like a depression day or whatever. So I would be like, just like, quality time, I think. [01:05:54] Speaker A: Quality time, probably. What's your favorite quality time thing? [01:05:57] Speaker B: I mean, sometimes just, like, being in each other's presence. Like, even, like, sometimes, like, things don't have to be said. It's just a matter of, like, even just, like, I really enjoyed, like, with my ex, like, when we would just. We might not say anything. We'd just be sitting there and, like, my legs would be, like, across his lap and just, like, he'd have hand, like, on my leg and like, that just be nice. Like, we don't have to say anything. It's not like, touchy, touchy. We're with each other, so it's a nice thing. [01:06:19] Speaker A: You know, something that I like about that I discovered. So I'm constantly discovering things about myself. Right. I really, like, like being in the presence of someone that I really like. [01:06:30] Speaker B: Right. [01:06:30] Speaker A: But, like, maybe I'm doing my work, they're doing their work, we're. But it's like, there. And I can, like, go over there, give them a kiss. [01:06:38] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:06:39] Speaker A: And like, you know, we're. [01:06:40] Speaker B: It's like, it's just like the reassurance that, like, they're there with you. Right? Yeah. That's part of the same thing with me about, like, quality time. It's just like being in a Each other's presence even if we're not doing the same thing. [01:06:50] Speaker A: Right? No, that's good. [01:06:51] Speaker B: Yeah. Or like, I kind of lived alone one year in college. It was just like, he would be downstairs studying and I'd be like, upstairs in my room, like, already having finished my work. And it's just, like, good that they're in the same house as me, you know? [01:07:02] Speaker A: So that's good. [01:07:03] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:07:04] Speaker A: That's cool. [01:07:04] Speaker B: Yeah. Anyways. [01:07:07] Speaker A: Mine is Acts of Service. [01:07:09] Speaker B: Really? [01:07:09] Speaker A: Acts of Service. So any, like, literally anything related to acts of service, us. [01:07:14] Speaker B: Okay. [01:07:15] Speaker A: Like, Literally, like, I had a. So I had a girl, like, in college, like, came back home and, like, my clothes were folded and I'm, like. [01:07:24] Speaker B: In love instantly. Yeah. [01:07:28] Speaker A: Or, like, you know, like, if I'm driving and, like, somebody puts in the GPS or something, like, literally the smallest things, I'm like, thank you. [01:07:36] Speaker B: Oh, well, that's really sweet. You just, like, appreciate people doing for you. [01:07:41] Speaker A: Just whatever. [01:07:42] Speaker B: Yeah. It doesn't have to be something monumental. [01:07:45] Speaker A: Yeah, nothing monumental. Just the thoughtfulness of it. [01:07:48] Speaker B: Yeah. Just, like, they are thinking of you and. [01:07:50] Speaker A: Right. [01:07:50] Speaker B: And it shows in their actions. So. [01:07:53] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:07:53] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:07:54] Speaker A: You know, anything. [01:07:55] Speaker B: Yeah, I appreciate that. [01:07:56] Speaker A: Or, like, just, like, hey, I know that you worked out. Like, would you like a massage? Like, wow. And it, like, it's also physical touch. Oh, sweet combo package. [01:08:05] Speaker B: Mindful of you. Right. So, like, mindfulness is a big thing. [01:08:09] Speaker A: Mindfulness. Yeah. But anyways, one more, one more, one more. All right. You do. You do. [01:08:14] Speaker B: Yeah. All right. Oh, upside down. Tell us about the one that got away. [01:08:25] Speaker A: Wow, that's legit. [01:08:26] Speaker B: I just saw a panic on your face, man. [01:08:28] Speaker A: Yeah. Because there was like. Okay, so there's like a. Hmm. The one that got away. So there's. There's. Okay, so there's. Okay, I'll tell you the one that got away. But it was. It was good. We still have a really good relationship. It was the same girl that I told you that story. [01:08:45] Speaker B: The club? [01:08:46] Speaker A: Yeah, the club. [01:08:46] Speaker B: I was just. No way. Because with your face, I was like, it's the dive bar girl, isn't it? [01:08:51] Speaker A: Yeah, we did it for, like, two years. Like, two, three years. [01:08:55] Speaker B: Right. [01:08:55] Speaker A: And I just. We stopped dating. But, like, she's literally the nicest person I've ever met in my life. And her family's, like, so cool. And, like, I sent her a birthday gift this year. Like, I was just like, you know, we still, like. I haven't seen her in forever, but we, like, still talk. [01:09:12] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:09:13] Speaker A: Every now and then, you know, so. Yeah. [01:09:15] Speaker B: At least it's, like, nice. And you still have, like, a friend in that, right? [01:09:18] Speaker A: Yeah, no, we're still friends. Yeah. Yeah. [01:09:20] Speaker B: That's awesome, though. [01:09:21] Speaker A: Yeah. Yeah. [01:09:22] Speaker B: Sweet story. I still can't believe it's dive bar girl. [01:09:25] Speaker A: It is dive bar girl. No, no, but it's like, she's not, like, a dive bar girl. [01:09:30] Speaker B: Yeah, but just, like, that was the place in the meeting. [01:09:33] Speaker A: In the meeting. And it's like, it just happened because I kind of like, okay, this is what it is. I like what? Like, I like the fact that she kissed me like Right off. Like, without even. I like when girls, like. It's like they just do what they feel. You know what I'm saying? It's not like society's like, I shouldn't it. [01:09:54] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:09:55] Speaker A: Do this right now? Because it's too soon in the moment. In the moment. I. Like, in the moment. Like, that is, like, the most. Like, one of the most attractive things. [01:10:03] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:10:03] Speaker A: You know? [01:10:04] Speaker B: Okay. It's hearing that story during COVID times. That sounds so weird. I can't imagine doing that, like, after Covid's happened. [01:10:12] Speaker A: Right. [01:10:14] Speaker B: Terrifying. We were so, like, not sanitary, probably. [01:10:17] Speaker A: Off the mask. [01:10:18] Speaker B: Take off the mask. Seductively. [01:10:19] Speaker A: Throw it. Oh, don't you need the ma. Not anymore. [01:10:25] Speaker B: Not anymore. Now that I found my person. [01:10:28] Speaker A: The person. [01:10:29] Speaker B: Yes. We were so unsanitary before Company. [01:10:32] Speaker A: Right. Now we're. Now we're better. [01:10:34] Speaker B: Yeah. I mean, we're at least more conscious of it. [01:10:37] Speaker A: True. [01:10:38] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:10:38] Speaker A: What. What about you? What's your. [01:10:40] Speaker B: Oh, like, the one that got away. [01:10:41] Speaker A: The one that got away, yeah. Oh, wow. That's a good one. [01:10:48] Speaker B: Well, it's just like. Oh, I'm not gonna cry. I think it's just. There was a guy who I was friends with in college, and we were really great friends, and he actually, like, slept over a lot. And, like. Like, we slept in the same bed, but we never hooked up. [01:11:03] Speaker A: Like, nothing like that. [01:11:04] Speaker B: And, like, did you want to? I mean, like. Yeah. So for me. Yes. Because, like, after. Oh. Because, like, okay, for the first time, I was like, oh, this guy's gonna try to hook up with me. And then he didn't. So I was like, oh, that's attractive. You know, like, he wasn't just, like, trying to get with me. And then, like, by the fourth time he slept over, I was like, is there something wrong with me? But, like, it was just, like, we would spend so much time together. Like, he loved my dog, which, like, it's so attractive when someone, like, loves. I have a really big dog. She's a Great Dane. So when someone actually loves my dog, it's really attractive because she's a handful and a half and she. [01:11:38] Speaker A: I lived in a house with a Great Dane. It's pretty cool. Yeah. [01:11:41] Speaker B: Slobber. [01:11:42] Speaker A: Yeah, right? [01:11:42] Speaker B: Yeah, slobber. And no person. Personal space. So she thinks she's a lap dog. So that was, like, part of it. So, like, he loved my dog. He was so sweet. We laughed all the time. Like, constantly we're laughing and, like, sweet cuddler and stuff like that. It's just like nothing ever happened of that sort. And then I moved from. Because that was in my college town. And when I moved here, he was like. He, like, texted me, and he was like, oh, like, something should have happened. Like, he is like. And he, like, kind of, like, confessed some feelings for me, and I was like, right after I leave. [01:12:13] Speaker A: Oh, my God. Why did he do that? [01:12:15] Speaker B: I was like, why? We just literally hung out for months and just like, nothing but, like, it's still, like, awesome, dude. Great friends. And, like, I really, like, valued the fact that he wasn't just trying to get with me. Yeah, that was, like, really nice. [01:12:30] Speaker A: That's cool. But you wish he would have made a move. [01:12:32] Speaker B: I mean, like, after, like, the fourth or fifth time, I was like, what? [01:12:37] Speaker A: My God, I'm so interested that, like, you wanted to say something. You didn't say it. [01:12:41] Speaker B: I mean, like, there were times when I would, like, give him crap, like, afterwards, and I'd be like, why? Like, it'd be like, I should have made a move. And he's like, yeah, I should have. I'll do it next time. And it never would. It never would. So it's like, okay, well, is what it is, but really awesome. Really awesome, guys. [01:12:58] Speaker A: That's cool. [01:12:58] Speaker B: Yeah. And everyone was like, I thought you guys would date. And I was like, I kind of didn't, too. [01:13:03] Speaker A: But we need to know the. We need that story. We need to get to the bottom of this. [01:13:08] Speaker B: I mean, I've asked him. I've asked him. Sometime, like, over the summer, I, like, asked him. I was like, why did nothing ever come of us? He's like, I don't know. I'm really shy. And this, like. [01:13:17] Speaker A: Oh, it's a shy thing. [01:13:18] Speaker B: Yeah, he's, like, really shy, but really, really awesome guy. So that's cool. But it is what it is. We're still friends. I hear from him every couple months. Just. He's just like, hey, how you doing? [01:13:27] Speaker A: So that's legit. That's cool. [01:13:29] Speaker B: I like it when it's still friendly afterwards. I don't like bad blood. [01:13:32] Speaker A: No, it's got to be good blood. Always. [01:13:34] Speaker B: Yeah. Like, if it's. If it ends negatively, it just, like, it messes with me. So. [01:13:37] Speaker A: Right. [01:13:38] Speaker B: But. [01:13:39] Speaker A: Okay, let's. Let's answer some questions, finish it off. Okay. Whoa. Okay. So eat your meal well. Okay. We will. We will eat our meal well. Thanks, Turbo Man. Turbo. You know, man, your mom cooks for you? No, she does not cook for me, but she does cook very well when she does. She cooked Thanksgiving for us. [01:14:07] Speaker B: Yep. [01:14:07] Speaker A: Who's that? Girl. This is Carson. [01:14:09] Speaker B: Hi. [01:14:10] Speaker A: You know, and she's also, you know, a goddess of sorts. [01:14:14] Speaker B: Yeah. A God of garlic. [01:14:17] Speaker A: God of garlic. Yes, yes. Underscore at the end if you want to follow her on Instagram. [01:14:20] Speaker B: Garlic God. Underscore. [01:14:22] Speaker A: Yeah. Doom. And I am Javi Mack. Javi Mack show on all platforms. We're on the Javi Mac show podcast with Carson in and we're wrapping up. We'll see you in a little bit. We're going to eat some food. Thanks for checking in, guys. [01:14:34] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:14:35] Speaker A: All right, bye.